Not interested in dating you
Maybe you had an effortless first date that lasted until 2am.
No, the problem is that you EXPECT anything different. I am NOT telling you to accept all their bad behavior. Well, 2 weeks or so after that conversation, he phoned me again, and told me that things didn’t work out with that other lady and asked me out. I rarely feel as comfortable on a first date as I did with him, like we really “clicked”. And she has a really great chance of going on a second date with a man about whom she’s quite excited.My mailing list is a completely separate newsletter with completely separate advice that goes out every Tuesday.If you haven’t already registered for this free weekly advice, please click here: Below is a copy of the newsletter that got emailed to thousands of women just this morning.How much time and effort did he really give his current relationship? And who in the world wants to be his sloppy second?I find this man incredibly shallow and disrespectful. Will he also do this to Lorraine (have a gal on the sidelines so to speak) in case Lorraine doesn’t work out to HIS expectations? With the comment he made “if things don’t work out, I will call you” would have most women thinking what a jerk!Sometimes at night, they dream of having that first kiss in the most romantic place they could ever think of with their crush.
Just read these steps and later, you might get your first kiss soon.
Was this guy leading her on and then dropped the bombshell that he was dating someone? -Kristy As you know, reasonable people can agree to disagree.
But what Kristy fails to realize is that, if she were Lorraine, her pride would have prevented her from going on a lovely date with a man who did absolutely NOTHING wrong.
If he had made up a lie and said “I can’t see you right now because I’m taking care of my sick mother”…
he’d be a saint, but instead he chose to be honest. Waiting to see the outcome of a handful of dates with one guy or girl while still letting your “backups” know your interested, is not “sloppy seconds”; it’s common courtesy, respectful and being authentic.
She forgets that EVERYONE online is dating someone else. Would you rather be “right” like Kristy or would you rather “get what you want” like Lorraine?