I have never done ANYTHING with a male, and the only form of penetration I have ever had has been a finger. However, I enjoy masturbation and I own several toys.
This page sets out a definition of virginity and a philosophy of it and its importance. There are four kinds of sexual intercourse: So who is a virgin?Males have a much tougher time adjusting to a partner (or even finding one) if they remain virgins past your age. If that's all you've done, I doubt anyone could tell.What is the average age for losing virginity (for men and women)? If a male has sex using a condom, does he lose his virginity the same as if his penis were uncovered? (age 29) Using a condom does nothing to preserve virginity. You will probably have other opportunities for sexual experimentation before the time comes for you to get married, and so will your future husband.I'm still a virgin and last night my boyfriend used his fingers to pleasure me.I've had this done to me before but ever since last night every time I go to the toilet my vagina hurts and it won't stop bleeding. (age 16) Most people say that having someone's fingers in your vagina (manual intercourse) does not make you not a virgin.But as a percent of all single women your age, they are a minority.
You should try to get married soon or else abandon the idea of being a virgin.
Besides sexual intercourse, the hymen can break through masturbation, athletic activity, tampon use, or even strenuous play. To quote the song "Toyland" from the 1903 musical Babes in Toyland, (lyrics by Glen Mac Donough, music by Victor Herbert) So what is a "born-again virgin"? A lot of people want to wait to have sex until they're married, or until they meet someone very special. Most girls who are worried about hurting their hymens are trying to keep themselves as pure as possible, like keeping something brand new after bringing it home from the store.
Most women have some hymen left until they bear a child vaginally. That's a sexually experienced person who decides not to have sex again until he or she is married or experiences some other event. These people decide that sex is not merely a biological act but something more important. They want to be able to prove to their future husband (or their first partner) that they really are virgins. (age 18) Masturbating does not make you not a virgin. I heard it's when the boy gets all of the head in and I've heard that it's when the boy busts your hymen.
Everyone has to decide what importance virginity has to him or her. Since the hymen can be broken in so many ways other than sexual intercourse, it isn't all that useful as an indicator of intercourse experience in most women of marriageable age. It can show if a very young girl (of the age that would normally have an intact hymen) has been sexually abused, and in what manner. I can't tell whether or not I am because he got all of the head in, but not much else.
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Everyone agrees that someone who has engaged in vaginal intercourse is not a virgin.