Famous actresses dating older men
They wanted to be great actresses and they wanted to be in great films and so, if there was something that might stop them from doing that, they would put it in the 'file of forgotten'." She has yet to tell even close friends: "No one knows. She confided in Peter Sellers, but he took her secret to his grave.
I used to date a girl (older than me) who would always tell me about how she had just balanced some multi-million dollar budget, or how she was in the throes of closing an important project. Women who try to attract men by being successful are like men who try to attract women by being sweet or gentle.Both of these misconceptions are examples of the sexes projecting their own desires onto the other.It is women, not men, who find career success attractive, because it demonstrates drive, focus, strength, initiative - masculine qualities.I am sure there are some women who grew up understanding otherwise.Or perhaps, having been dealt mediocre looks and a poor figure, others decided that they would pour their energy into their academic degrees or career rather than their beauty, and then proceeded (not without help) to dupe themselves into believing that men would like them for it.I've dated countless women and it has always amazed me how little they know about men.
If nothing else, this blog is an outlet for voicing my astonishment at the typical female's ignorance of the male mindset.
So if they shot beyond there and went any further, all they would see is camel tape. I didn't allow them to do those things." Twice married, she is in no rush to do it again.
"I couldn't live with someone," she says waving the idea away, but there is another way.
But when I feel ready and it's important for me to do it for myself, I will." "If you want to be an actress, you just get on with it.
And I think if you asked any actress that was around in the late 1950s or early 1960s, they would say the same.
Likewise it is men, not women, who find gentleness attractive, because it is a symptom of openness, receptiveness, nuturing ability - feminine qualities.