Dating someone on your floor in college
This time they wouldn’t abandon their marriage but would figure a way to work out their marriage problems.They would not expect their children NOT to be negatively affected by the divorce.
Check out our Save My Marriage Course – where you’ll learn how to bring your spouse back to the marriage even if he or she is in love with another person. Relationship affairs – as opposed to the one-night-stand type of affairs that are wholly about sex and not at all about relationship – usually find root in a person’s feeling unloved, unaccepted, disliked, or disrespected.That doesn’t mean that the person necessarily went looking for affirmation and validation from someone else.Underlying vulnerabilities very likely made the new relationship possible.Highly revered marriage researcher John Gottman writes in his book …many clinicians…have been quick to point out that ‘affairs involve sex, but sex is usually not the purpose of the affair’…In fact, most clinicians who have written in this area report that affairs are usually about seeking friendship, support, understanding, and validation…they are about getting the acceptance that is missing in the marriage.” My work with thousands of married couples in crisis indicates that this is exactly the case.If you think that being with your lover more than makes up for any difficulties in these areas, you aren’t alone.
Nearly everyone who makes that decision figures that because of they are deeply in love with someone else, everything balances out in the end.
In short, they would have stayed in the first marriage and done all they could to make it work.
Though logic doesn’t reign for you at this moment, please attempt to silence your emotions temporarily to see past the feelings into your future.
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Perhaps you’ve gone further and the relationship has turned physical.