Dating more than one man at a time
Keep it casual Rotational dating doesn't mean you have to sleep with everyone.It simply means continuing to see other men for harmless cinema and lunch dates, till one man from your rotation majorly steps up and asks you for your full commitment. Keep the faith“In my personal experience (I attracted my husband while rotational dating),” Sami said, "and in the experience of my clients, a man who really wants you will move mountains to be with you, and will not be deterred by the fact that he's got some competition.
If you’re dating someone, and you haven’t talked about the rules of engagement (including how exclusive you will be), don’t assume that they’ll be okay with you dating someone else at the same time. Not knowing whether it’s okay with your partner, or hiding what you’re up to, is a recipe for emotional disaster for everyone involved.“In fact, this slight competition might actually fire his desire to step up and claim you even more aggressively.” 3.Ditch the guilt Sami said: “Remember that you're willing to stop dating other men when he gives you his full commitment, so until then you have nothing to feel guilty about.”Are men really the most selfish in bed?If your partner’s actions are causing you to be unhappy, and you’ve exhausted all other options (talking openly and honestly with them, and seeking help), then you should end the relationship. My best friend has been single for the past six months, after being in a relationship for five years.This has changed now that she has started seeing someone she really likes, but until recently, I encouraged her to keep seeing this other, duddier guy throughout, just so she wouldn’t concentrate all of her anxieties on one dude.
I advised her not to put all of her dating eggs in one basket, if you will.
This encourages women to date more than one man at the same time.
Sami said: “When you do this you’re less likely to get too attached to any one of them quickly.
Monogamy is the model that many follow in the bid to settle down and get married.
However, women who remain faithful while dating are doing it all wrong - according to one expert.“If you’re a single woman who’s serious about finding The One, the best way to do it is to make sure you’re dating several men at once,” claimed Sami Wunder, author of Your Feminine Roadmap To His Commitment.
If you or your partner don’t feel safe or happy, be open and honest about it, and work with them to resolve the problem.